it has always been a phenomenon immortalised by movies to find a definition for love; and not only movies , novellas , dramas ,poetry and all forms of creative art have endeavoured to do that but actually no one can be sure of what it actually is ! not me , neither u not any other person of flesh and blood......the fact is that love speaks in own language for every person....
What i think is that everything is fair when love is fair!
However from all my acquaintances with love and lovers,i have observed one thing :
some people fall in love because they want to, some because they have to and still some others are there who dont know the have fallen or not .
For the 1st category , people take it as a fashion statement
The 2nd category ones cant do without it
The 3rd category are afraid to take the plunge..........but did u observe 1 thing- people in all this categories are selfish in their own ways
true love is selfless, giving the other pleasure to one's partner even at the cost of self interest .....like a candle which burns itself but gives out light....but still can any one b so much sacrificial so as to give up one's own self for the cost of the other .....the answer is preferably and thankfully a big NO!
We can love a person but if it is not reciprocated we can always move ahead. Life is precious, we cant give it up for any one just because we are in love _ all that is simply damn bullshit thing.
But when we are in love we should keep in mind that we care for the other, be a support for each other, just have the hands to hold for the required warmth,the required comfort , the shoulder one can lie upon when on adversities...and that is the best meaning of love if not becceassarily the TRUEST meaning !
BYE........!!!!
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I liked swami 'Ved'anand's pravachan
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