true MEANING of love !

it has always been a phenomenon immortalised by movies to find a definition for love; and not only movies , novellas , dramas ,poetry and all forms of creative art have endeavoured to do that but actually no one can be sure of what it actually is ! not me , neither u not any other person of flesh and blood......the fact is that love speaks in own language for every person....

What i think is that everything is fair when love is fair!

However from all my acquaintances with love and lovers,i have observed one thing :

some people fall in love because they want to, some because they have to and still some others are there who dont know the have fallen or not .

For the 1st category , people take it as a fashion statement
The 2nd category ones cant do without it
The 3rd category are afraid to take the plunge..........but did u observe 1 thing- people in all this categories are selfish in their own ways


true love is selfless, giving the other pleasure to one's partner even at the cost of self interest .....like a candle which burns itself but gives out light....but still can any one b so much sacrificial so as to give up one's own self for the cost of the other .....the answer is preferably and thankfully a big NO!

We can love a person but if it is not reciprocated we can always move ahead. Life is precious, we cant give it up for any one just because we are in love _ all that is simply damn bullshit thing.

But when we are in love we should keep in mind that we care for the other, be a support for each other, just have the hands to hold for the required warmth,the required comfort , the shoulder one can lie upon when on adversities...and that is the best meaning of love if not becceassarily the TRUEST meaning !

BYE........!!!!

my BLOGGING career !

frankly speaking,even till last year i had no idea of what on earth was a blog. I first heard about it , i think in a news channel showing spectcled Bangalore guy(if u think spects give the look of intelligence) working out on his laptop, i thought it was just some new technique, a new passtime or just a new funda on the PC front-hardly ever took it seriously, thanks to my current educational status as a law student my mind revolved more around section and acts than bits and bytes-its natural and obvious. But that thing "BLOG" they call it seemed to have got the better of me. Finally i decided to start discovering more about it. With google search engine @ my disposal, i finally got my answers. I entered "what is a blog?" as my keyword(s) and VOILA! within no time there was i, blogger.com at my service helping me create my own blog within no time.So i went about the formalities and then i added one more individual to the growing populace of dedicated bloggers in the nation. Thanx to blogger.com i am now a BLOGGER.....yoo hoo! How i longed to become a writer in a reputed journal, and now i have a online journal of my own. However the greatest inspirer in this regard has been Aamir Khan-one of my favorite actors and not only mine but a thousand of others and also a gr8 blogger with his famed Lagan_blog.

However with time i forgot much about my blog _ dont mind the tall claims given above,i could post only a single art. in 3 months...and only yesterday i remembered it once more that of all things in world that i have,i also have a blog - my sweet li'l blog, my cutie blog, my coothchie.......so here i am once again in a new avatar _ the avid blooger determined to get the annual award for BLOGGER OF THE YEAR'08......


So bandhu,i tell u, keep BLOGGING......
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